Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Speak Chinese

亚洲人讲一口流利的英文,很多时候我们都不把它当作一回儿事。理所当然,没什么大不了的。

听外国人讲汉语,可真叫人“大跌眼镜”!

我还记得有一次乘搭新航飞往日本的时候,旁边坐了一个西装笔挺的阿拉伯籍中年人:皮肤黝黑,眼窝深陷,鼻梁高挺,怎么看就是一个老外。这老外看我一时跟空姐说日语,一时阅读着中文报“南洋商报”,很好奇地跟我聊了起来。当我说我是马来西亚的华侨的同时,他突然以流利的汉语跟我谈天。我被他那标准的“普通话”可弄得傻呆呆的,久久不能还神。美酒加上会说汉语的老外,我们足足谈上好几个小时。

当今,随着中国的崛起,世界上掀起了“学汉语热”。中国的迅速经济发展和对外交往的日益频繁,使中文在国际上,日益重要。近年来,会说汉语的外国人不断增加。以前还可以在老外前用汉语讲他们的闲话。可是如今非比当日,要用汉语讲老外的闲话之前,还得三思而后行啊!!

种种巧合之下,认识了几个会说汉语的外国朋友。和他们聊起来挺开心的。我特地邀了这些朋友在这儿跟大家聊聊天。好让大家见识这些“中国通”们的本事儿。



注:麦修(Matthew)出生于美国Cleveland,也是当今我暂时歇脚之地。种种机缘,让我在日本认识了他,跟他保持了联络。麦修在香港中文大学修过10个月的汉语,在短短几个月内,掌握了汉语的基本会话,实在不得了。他还精于英语(理所当然),法语,还会说日本语和毛里求斯语,是个外语通。当今麦修居于加拿大多伦多,为加拿大政府公干,专搞英法翻译等事儿。



注:Tim也是Cleveland土生土长的美国人。2002年在中国云南省昆明市呆过一年,教英语。他本人没有受过正统的汉语教育,汉语都是从身边的朋友学回来的!!实在难得。

Monday, January 12, 2009

Video message: 新年祝词

Sunday, January 11, 2009

为你写诗

今天某S突然很好奇地问我:你为谁写诗?
我说我没有啊!但是最近喜欢了一首叫“为你写诗”的歌。
至于为什么突然在MSN上那么写呢,个人理由,别再多问。(笑)调你胃口。

我想很多人谈恋爱的时候,会写情诗,写情信的。SMS发来发去,没完没了。“为你写诗”这首歌,我觉得它MV蛮可爱的,就让我跟天下谈着恋爱的情侣们,或是成了家眷的夫妇们分享吧!


Friday, January 9, 2009

故曲重温,多情应笑我

2009也都到来了,再过一年,也就是2010年了。当年的2000年的new year's party,还好像是昨天的事儿。我发觉:年级越大,时间也过得越快。记得小时候,天天等着放假,等过年,等得颈也长了。现在呢,还来不及喘过气,又是一年过去了。真可怕!

今天吃晚餐的时候,iPod播着最近下载的中文歌。有一首是这么唱的:不是因为寂寞才想你,只是因为想你才寂寞。。。真有意思,令人深思。突然想起朋友的同时,寂寞--是因还是果?是寂寞才想起朋友,还是想起朋友才寂寞呢?我想--是个恶性循环吧!寂寞——想人——寂寞——想人——寂寞——想人——寂寞——想人。。。。
当然,爱一个人的时候,就是没完没了的“想人——寂寞——想人——寂寞——想人——寂寞——想人。。。”



晚上闲着无聊(其实有很多事情得干...在偷懒),就找些中文MV来看。蛮喜欢一首叫“请留住你的脚步”的歌,不知歌手是谁,听起来蛮动听的。YouTube里头一查,哎呀,原来是王力宏唱马兆骏的歌...MV里头提起了刘文正。



我小时候是在大学宿舍里头长大的,参的朋友不是“小真洋鬼子”,就是一帮“小假洋鬼子”。我常呆在死党的家,听他老爸播许多当时流行的英文歌。我家老爸却不是个听歌的人,所以小时候对中文歌的接触可真是少之又少。

理所当然,也很可惜的,谁是刘文正,我真的是丈二和尚摸不着头脑。虽然对他人不熟,但是他的歌:童年,秋蝉,乡间的小路,兰花草等等都是上小学和中学之后,听到与学到的歌曲。只是没想到这都是他唱的,想必这都是当年的流行歌曲吧!

我记得第一次接触到的中文流行歌曲,是小学旅行时,朋友给我听得一首歌‘大约在冬季’。那时开始,我才渐渐地爱上了中文流行歌曲。这么多年来,这许多“流行歌曲”,从“红遍天下”都渐渐都成了“陈年旧曲”。2009的今天,播着什么样的中文歌,我也还不是很清楚。没想到第一次听到的中文流行歌,已经是20年前的歌了!!

今天心血来潮,在YouTube里头把当年喜欢的歌一个个找出来听:群星的明天会更好,罗大佑的恋曲1990,Beyond的喜欢你,张洪量的你知道我在等你吗,童安格的其实你不懂我的心,小虎队的蝴蝶飞啊,红蜻蜓,李克勤的红日,鲁冰花,我悄悄地蒙上你的眼睛,男和女,真心英雄等等等。。。







大家也不妨把自己最喜欢的旧歌记下来,做个旧曲排行榜吧!

Thursday, January 8, 2009

郎才女貌

古时候,选对象,讲究郎才女貌。男的,要有才华,能出人头地,便是好丈夫的料子。女的呢,要长得清秀美丽,才是理想的结婚对象。市场经济的发展,把“郎才女貌”的趋势转为了“郎财女貌”。选个有才华的穷光蛋,还不如选个将继承百万家产的“阿斗”。也有人开玩笑说是--这是个“狼财女貌”的时代。
而今天的社会可不是那么单纯了。随着时代的变迁,女人的社会经济地位已经大大的提高,重男轻女的概念也随之崩溃。更何况,人们追求的,也并非三餐温饱,宝马雕车那么简单了。
今天的社会,除了才华和足够的经济能力之外,作男的也得有个“貌”。女的,要是有西施之美,却长了一个呆脑子,男人们也都会敬退三尺。当然品德方面更不能忽视的了。
我说呢,当今男人不得不卖相。有个貌,事业也较为顺利。不是吗?

注:原文写于去年此时,就是久久没Publish。今天终于把它拿出来分享。

Sunday, December 28, 2008

圣诞节快乐

西方的节日里头,我最喜欢的就是圣诞节了。
说是西方的,其实在国际化的今天来讲,已经是全球的节日了。
大马的好友们都放假的同时,身在美国里的我还得工作。真是的!

西方的圣诞节很家庭式的。就好像过节吃团圆饭一般。从圣诞节前夕开始,大家都关门大吉,不做生意。赶着回家过圣诞。街上,道路上都是冷清清的。好像是全城的人都死光了,有些可怕。

东方的圣诞节很不同,就好像大节日一般,大家出去吃饭呀,购物啊,开圣诞派对啊,挺热闹的。情侣们也借这日子,搞第二个214情人节--拍拖,吃西餐。在日本,一提起圣诞节,就是吃圣诞蛋糕的日子了。
我喜欢东方圣诞节,因为到处都张灯结彩,很漂亮,却同时给人很幽静,很舒服的感觉。

今年又买了一棵圣诞树。但是没时间给它化妆。哈哈。图如下:







吴生人挺好,明知道我工作忙,特地把圣诞节派对改到星期天来,让我能和他的几个亲友过圣诞。匆匆忙忙买了几个圣诞礼物,待会儿煮个肉骨茶带过去。

今年的圣诞,忙着工作的我,还是要祝福各位,圣诞节快乐。也同时祝各位新年快乐!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

想家

小时候 有个梦想
就是在翅膀成形之时 远走高飞
体验独立生活 寻找属于自己的方向

就这样 
种种机缘 让我能张开那还来不及坚硬的翅膀 
离开了家 
离开了熟悉的保护网
到了人地生疏的土地上   
如愿以偿 

没了家里的吵吵闹闹 
没了亲朋戚友的应酬和炫耀
少了12点钟的门限和家条
生活的确是十分清幽 逍遥

十多年 世界已变了不少模样
坚硬的翅膀 
却无法补偿 那心灵的渴望
-希望不久的将来 可以终于回家吃团圆饭。

Monday, December 15, 2008

写垃圾

今天终于下定决心 -- 写垃圾。

要写垃圾,也得考功力:要够无聊,心情要够乱。

也不知道是不是最近阳光不够,还是营养不足,最近就是杂念多多。

很想到海边去,早上在海滩上看书,晚上捕鱼温饱肚子。哈哈,发觉自己越来越天真了!

笑。

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Day light saving...

So, this is something I find interesting during my first year in the US...

I woke up early at 5am today (even though it is a Sunday morning...) to get ready for work. I am on call for the weekend, and will be doing my 30-hours shift. I normally do not pay attention to the clocks around me. But today, while I was making my Colombian coffee with my coffee maker, I realized that the clock on my microwave and oven both showed 6:10AM. I started freaking out thinking I was late for my bus. However, I was pretty sure my alarm clock was 5:00AM a moment earlier. So, I took out my iPhone, and it showed 5:10AM. I checked on my analog clock, it was 6:10AM. My electronic alarm clock was 5:10AM. I thought I was going out of my mind, so i decided to go back to sleep, hoping that my hallucinations will go away...
Apparently, that did not happen.

Then I vaguely remembered something I heard like ages ago but never really experienced it before... DST!!!

So, what is DST?

DST, or Daylight saving time, is the convention of advancing clocks so that afternoons have more daylight and mornings have less during spring/summer. Typically clocks are adjusted forward one hour near the start of spring and are adjusted backward in autumn. Starting in 2007, daylight time begins in the United States on the second Sunday in March and ends on the first Sunday in November. On the second Sunday in March, clocks are set ahead one hour at 2:00 a.m. local standard time, which becomes 3:00 a.m. local daylight time. On the first Sunday in November, clocks are set back one hour at 2:00 a.m. local daylight time, which becomes 1:00 a.m. local standard time.

Not all places in the U.S. observe daylight time. In particular, Hawaii and most of Arizona do not use it. Indiana adopted its use beginning in 2006. In 2006, daylight time begins on April 2 and ends on October 29. In 2007, daylight time begins on March 11 and ends on November 4 (New law went into effect). In 2008, daylight time begins on March 9 and ends on November 2. In 2009, daylight time begins on March 8 and ends on November 1.

Well, the practice of DST is pretty controversial. Adding daylight to afternoons benefits retailing, sports, and other activities that exploit sunlight after working hours, but causes problems for farming, entertainment and other occupations tied to the sun. Traffic fatalities are reduced when there is extra afternoon daylight; its effect on health and crime is less clear. Although an early goal of DST was to reduce evening usage of incandescent lighting, formerly a primary use of electricity, modern heating and cooling usage patterns greatly differ and research about how DST currently affects energy use is limited and contradictory.

Modern DST was first proposed in 1907 by the English builder William Willett. Many countries have used it since then; details vary by location and change occasionally. Some countries have actually used it and then repealed it. I came across this interesting map which shows places(countries) currently using it(blue), places that have used it(orange), and places that never even started it(red). Thought it might be cool to share it with you guys:



Apparently, some of my newer devices have automatic DST adjusting functions. My cellphones and alarm clocks adjusted the clock to standard time when I was sleeping, while my analog clock, microwave and oven clock did not come with such capabilities. Well, what the heck, I am glad I did get an hour extra of sleep last night then... :) Sweeet!!!

Getting a car...

For years, I have been able to get myself around places with bicycles, trains, buses and planes. Sometimes, my friends will drive me around and to places I need to go to. Public transports, has never been a problem.... until now.
The United States is a F#%$k'n HUGE country, and here, public transport is not as good, and everybody has a car. Without a car, I am pretty much stuck with my sad little life with restricted access to places beyond the reach of public transportations. Though life has been good with couple of "volunteer drivers" that basically gave me rides to places I need to go, I started to be convinced that I need a car to survive in this city called Cleveland, especially when the weather is getting cold.
I have been browsing around for a good "wife" to spend my time with for the next 3-5 years, and have been to Mitsubishi, Honda, Toyota, Mazda, Mustang, BMW dealers to get a perfect car for myself. It has been tough to find the right car with the right sense. Mitsubishi eclipse has a fancy "butt" and great in performance, but was not as exciting as Mazda RX-8. Honda and Toyotas are great cars with good gas mileages and great interiors but was not totally the car I would wanna drive right now. A dealer was trying to get me to buy his modified brand new mustang, with 7k rebate, but I am still considering if I could trust an American car. BMW has the sleek look, and of course its brand name, but not as sporty as others.
I realised I am more of a superficial, sports-car-kind-person, with no interest on luxury cars or SUV. Funny enough, I don't really care about the performance either. I told a girlfriend of mine, that as long as the car looks good, I am getting it. She gave me this funny look, with a simple remark: "You men are so superficial..." Ha ha. I apologize to those guys out there who aren't as superficial as I am, but hell ya, I am getting my car just base on the look.
Well, let me take that back. It is not TOTALLY about the look. I am not going for a 2 seater this time, so most of the roadsters are out from my lists. SLK 350, Lotus seems like fun car to get hold of, but very impractical. I am also looking into a cars that has the "basic" entertainment equipments like a port for my iPhone and iPod and a surround audio system. A moon-roof will be a plus. Guess I am not asking too much for such basic requirements.
For the time being, I am still swinging between getting a RX-8 or a BMW 328i sedan. Also thinking of eclipse or perhaps giving mustang a try. What do u think?

Mitsubishi Eclipse

Mazda RX-8

BMW 328i Sedan